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- We cherish all your concerns.
Nationwide concern contest.
- We have very special guests today.
- It's been a long time. - They have gathered all together!
- Everyday girl's day, Hello.
We are Girl's Day.
- Song-yeob's blocking them in the middle.
Move your head.
- They were saying hello two at a time.
- Can the 4 of you say hello all together?
- Everyday Girl's Day.
Hello, we are Girl's Day.
- It feels like a holiday with all of them together.
How long has it been, Hyeri?
- I think 1 year and 9 months?
It's been almost 2 years since we released an album.
- You have been on TV separately.
What do you think you're better at than other members?
- I have good teeth.
- Teeth?
Strong teeth.
- Yes.
So I like how I look when I smile and how I have a lot of hair.
- You have a lot of hair.
- I'm really jealous of this.
- For me, it's my skin.
- Skin.
- You all have great skin, but who has the best skin?
- It's radiant.
- I'm confident about my skin, even without make up on.
- For me, I'd say it's my mono eye lids.
- Mono eye lids.
- Mono eye lids these days...
- Mono eye lids are popular right now. - It's trending right now.
- You're really pretty if you look good even without double eye lids.
- Right.
- Really. - What is this?
- Why are you putting your foot out?
- I'm shy.
- For me, I think my greatest asset is that I'm the youngest member.
- You're the youngest.
- I think this never changes.
- I'm the youngest of my team too.
- Really?
- The youngest in Cultwo.
- A 46 years old.
- Since you are on our show,
can you tell us your concerns?
- My concern is that I have too much concerns. - Really?
- Even before I came on the show today,
I was worried about looking swollen because I ate a lot the day before.
I thought "What should I do then?"
And then I thought "What if people leave a comment that I'm fat?"
And then it just goes on. - Every day?
- You really get into it.
What about you, Hyeri?
- I don't really have any...
- Hyeri's well known for her positivity.
- She's well known for her positivity.
- Hyeri earned a lot of money.
Do you worry about how you are going to manage the money?
I want to borrow some.
That's why I'm asking.
- What should I do?
- I don't know.
If you want to waste it, just talk to us.
- Your songs are always cheerful and have signature dance moves.
I wonder how they will attract us. - Girl's Day is very attractive.
- We have our special chairs.
- You'll see a very familiar chair.
- What is the song called?
- 'I'll be yours'.
- Let's see then...
- Nice, nice.
It's different.
That's nice.
Good.
- Yoo-ra, to the side.
- Nice.
- Finish off, So-jin.
- We have 3 concerns today.
Let's see the concern keywords.
- 'Don't worry, dear'
- 'Where is my house?'
- 'Scrub, scrub'
- A high school student sent us a concern saying she is so tired...
- It must be difficult. - She sent us a concern.
Hello.
I'm a grade 12 student who is so tired of my mom who is always packing.
- Packing?
- Continuously packing and unpacking.
My mom is addicted to moving.
- Addicted to moving?
- "Pack up your stuff."
"We can't live here anymore. Let's move to somewhere else."
"Pack up your stuff."
"We're moving."
"There's a cockroach in the house."
"What are you talking about? I don't want to move."
"I'm not going."
"Then you stay here. I've already finished signing the contract."
"We're moving next week."
Because of my mom who always decides to move on her own,
I had to move 14 times.
- That's a lot. - And she's only in high school?
- When I was in 5th grade,
"Mom, I became the class vice president!"
"Congratulations."
"But you have to switch school, pack up your stuff."
- Wow. - So I had to move once again.
Even when we move, it's still a problem. - Wow.
- "There must not be even a strand of hair at our new house."
"What?"
"Don't spill water on the table." "Be careful."
- "Is it the mom or the dad?"
- 'Are there two moms?"
- Mom only cares about the house, not the family.
Nobody can stop her.
All I have left is for you guys to help me.
Please help me.
- We've never seen someone addicted to moving.
- Unbelievable.
- Addicted to moving.
- 14 times. - 14 times?
- Most people are too lazy to move even if they want to.
- That's right. - Or some people move against their will.
- 14 times in 19 years...
- That's almost once every year. - Right.
That means she always has to make new friends. - Right.
That's really difficult to do.
- It's like having to switch school
when you just made new friends.
Let's hear from our guest now.
Please come out.
- Hello-o.
Welcome. - So pretty.
- She has great skin.
- So you moved 14 times in 19 years?
- When was the shortest time you stayed at a house?
- 4 months.
- What?
- 4 months?
- That's crazy. - But did your mom decide to move
just because she got tired of it? - Yes.
- So you have to move when she decides to move?
- Yes. - Wow.
- You probably didn't even unpack all your stuff in 4 months.
- One time, we moved before we unpacked all of our stuff. - See?
- And we moved before I memorized the address,
so I got lost once.
Mom said that we're going to move again, for the 15th time.
- Again? - Yes.
- Why does she move so much?
- She wanted to move from a higher floor apartment to a lower floor apartment,
and the other way around.
Or she would want to move from a big house to a smaller house. - To a smaller house?
- Yes. Changing to different sizes within an apartment building...
- Within the same apartment building?
- To different buildings. - To a different building?
- Within the same complex...
- If the dad likes to drink a lot,
it must be hard for him to get home.
He might go to the wrong house. - Yes.
- What was the hardest thing for you?
- I have a shy personality,
so it's hard for me to make friends.
- But when you switch schools... - It's hard if I keep switching school.
- Do you have a best friend?
A best friend.
- I don't think so.
- How many times did you switch schools?
- 5 times just in elementary school.
- 5 times in elementary school?
- Just in elementary school... - Is that possible?
- I just stay quiet because I know that I will be leaving soon.
- Because you know that you'll be leaving soon? - Oh no.
- You're preparing for farewell as you meet them.
- That's so said. - Why don't you tell your mom that
you really don't want to move.
You should seriously talk to her.
- She would tell me that
it's my job to adjust to new schools.
- She should at least move around the same school.
- Or she would ask me if I want to
live at my grandmother's house which is near my school.
- Does she discuss with your family
a few months before moving then?
- She would tell us that we're moving a week before.
- A week before. - She just tells you?
- Yes.
- She finished signing the contract.
- Doesn't your dad say anything?
Your dad?
- She always fights with dad.
Because of moving. - Because of moving?
- We all want to know
why her mom moves so much.
Let's meet her mother and ask her directly.
Hello.
- Hello.
- Is there a particular reason why you move so much?
- There's no particular reason.
My husband likes drinking,
and he drinks like 3 times a month.
So my hobby is moving.
- So you're asking her to understand?
- I get to do a lot of things I like when I move.
- For example?
- Like changing wallpapers or painting the wall.
- That's how you relieve your stress. - I like to change the sofa or the curtain.
- You can do that in the same house.
- You don't get the right vibe then.
- It's not the right vibe.
It doesn't look good. - It doesn't look good.
- But you moved 14 times...
Isn't it hard?
- It might be hard if you think of it has a task, but it's a hobby for me.
Do you ever feel tired from your hobby?
I don't think so.
- Hobby... - I've never seen a hobby like this.
- I've never seen someone whose hobby is to move.
- But it's not a house you live alone,
but you share it with your family. - Right.
- But it's my house.
- It's under your name? - Whose name is it under...
- So the house is under the mom's name.
- Yes, it's my house so I think my opinion is the most important.
- So it's either 'like it or get out'.
- Right. - Do your family members agree with you?
On moving so often?
- I don't think I should be agreed on for my hobby.
I don't need them to agree.
So... - Then...
- Or investing in real estate...
- To earn some profit.
- No. It's just a hobby...
- No, Min-ah.
It's just a hobby.
- That's so... - How can moving be a hobby?
- Even if it's just a hobby...
- But it must be hard for your children to keep switching schools.
- It might've been hard when they were young.
- She can't make any friends.
- I don't meet any of my elementary school friends anymore.
You meet new friends when you grow up.
- Even if you don't meet your childhood friends now,
you might want to have good memories with your childhood friends...
- I changed school once.
I cried for a week.
- I think it all has to do with your personality.
- Personality.
- So Yura has a personality issue.
- I knew she would be criticized.
- Yura cried for a week.
I don't think you would cry anymore when you switch school.
- I used to cry a lot at first, but now I got used to it.
- You got used to it. Right?
- I just feel depressed. - This is so heartbreaking.
Your daughter...
She's not talking to anyone because she knows that she'll be leaving them soon.
We've all been her age too.
How do you feel when you hear this?
- I don' have that kind of personality.
- It's all about the personality. - Yes.
I think she'll get used to it later.
- Did you switch school a lot when you were young?
- I moved a lot.
I moved about 20 times because of my mom too.
- So it's genetic?
- A gene for hobby.
- I don't think I was ever stressed out about moving.
- So is it true that you're planning
to move again for the 15th time? - Yes.
- But your daughter in in grade 12.
- Yes.
- You should let her focus on studying.
- She'll go to college.
- After she gets into college.
- To confirm, we asked for them to bring
a copy of their resident registration. - Yes
It'll show how many times they moved. - It shows on the copy.
Let's see if this is a true story.
- A true story.
- Is it a true story?
- This is a true story.
- It's not one page. - This is not it.
This is not where I was born.
- Her mom moved a lot before,
and then she was born here on #20.
- From #20?
- It' Daegu.
- Dalsung-gun in Daegu.
- Dalsung-gun is...
- I go to your school.
- Really?
- She goes to your school.
- And then you went to Wondae-dong in Seo-gu.
And then to Guam-dong in Buk-gu and then Joongri-dong in Seo-gu.
- Wow. You went to my school when you were in Joongri-dong.
- You must have a lot of alumni.
- Nice.
- "Did you go to this school?"
Oh, you went there?
- She must've planned this for her daughter.
Because of school...
- All across the country.
- You moved 3 times within the same building.
- #33 and #34 are in the same building.
- There are different sizes within the same apartment.
- Wow. - There were different sized apartments,
so I thought that I should try
living in all of them. - It's really a hobby.
- It can be really inconvenient if you
move from a big house to a small house. - Yes.
- Wasn't it?
- No.
I wanted to move to a smaller house
after I looked at a house decorating book.
But as my children grew,
their feet would stick out their room door.
- Their feet would stick out the room door? - Yes.
When they were growing up. - What kind of house is that?
- Isn't that a storage?
- Was there another strange episode?
- We moved to a few different houses
and then moved back to our old house.
- To your old house? - To your old house?
- To the exact same house.
- How long did you stay at the next house?
- Next house... - We stayed there for 1 year.
- Wow.
- Why did you move back to your old house?
- I got tired of that house so I moved out,
but I realized that was the best house.
- Somewhat...
- But you moved out again after 1 year.
- I think that house must have the letter 'Heo' in front.
- Like rent cars? - Like rent cars, 'Heo' Suite # 201.
- But you moved out again after 1 year.
- That was the first house we bought.
- Like first love? - Right.
Yes, but after actually moving back
it wasn't what I expected.
- It's like breaking up with your first love,
and after meeting a couple different people you go back to your first love.
And then you're reminded of why you broke up in the first place...
- It's probably better to meet someone else.
- Is the dad here?
- Let's meet him. Hello. - Let's meet the dad.
- Aren't you frustrated?
- I'm mad.
- Why don't you try to stop her?
- We fought a lot over it.
I almost thought about divorce once.
But I didn't because of the kids.
- But how do you manage to move with her every time?
- She makes the decision on her own
and she just tells me later.
- She just tells you later. - Yes.
- What's the hardest thing for you?
- You invite your co-workers when you move to a new house. -right.
- Right. - Housewarming party.
- That's 14 housewarming parties.
- They would come for the 2nd or 3rd time,
because we moved.
But after a while, they wouldn't care.
- What about mails?
- Right. - You need to change the mailing address.
You need to change the address. - That's really annoying.
- You need to change your phone number as well.
So I was already fed up.
- And I was worried about dad getting home after drinking.
- One time I pressed the bell for the wrong apartment
and realized that it's not my house.
- You moved a lot,
but what was your most memorable moving experience?
- We were planning on moving and my wife had sold the house we're living in.
But we had this time gap between we could move into our new house.
So we had to live at my parents-in-law's house for a while.
- For 3 months to 6 months. - 6 months?
- Not for a couple days?
- We'd have to live there.
- There are gaps sometimes. - Yes.
It's usually a couple days.
A week at the longest.
- You usually sell right before you move into your new house. - Right.
I'll ask something that everyone is curious about,
did you buy all your houses?
- Most of them.
- Does the mom pay for it?
- No, it's all my money.
- No, it's my money. - But she said that it's her house.
- We'd get a loan,
and I have to pay it off eventually.
If I earn $2,000 per month, I'd spend half of for the loan interest.
- For the loan interest.
Why do you buy your house?
If you're going to keep moving? You should just rent it.
- You should rent. - When I buy, I think I'll stay for a long time.
- Wow.
But you can't stay there for long.
- Right.
- That must be a lot of realtor commission fee. - Right.
- Can you tell us how much you spent so far?
- The realtor fee... - The realtor commission fee.
- Moving company service
only costs about $2,000.
- Only $2,000?
- Approximately $2,000. - Combined?
- The problem is that there is a registration tax.
You must pay a transfer income tax when you sell your house,
but it's still a surplus.
- So it's not a loss?
- The price goes up. - It would go up like $1,000 when we sell.
It's not a loss. - How much does it cost exactly?
- Registration tax is $3,000 to $5,000.
14 times would make that $40,000 to $60,000.
- And the cost for moving company and realtor commission would be about...
- $20,000.
- That's another $40,000.
- The transfer income tax.
- It's almost $100,000. - Right.
- She spent $100,000 on moving.
- You need to save hundreds of dollars
for 10 years to make $100,000.
- That's right.
- Right.
- Are you moving because
you're aware of the profits?
The rising prices.
Are you a real estate expert?
- Not a real estate expert. - Mobile real estate agency.
- That's not why I move...
- The younger sister.
Are you the younger sister?
- Hello.
- Can you understand your sister's concern?
- Yes. I can understand her a little.
She has a picky personality,
so she must get stressed out a lot.
- Don't you get stressed out about moving?
- I just follow my mom.
- The same as mom.
- That must be nice. - It's genetic.
- Did you see your mom and sister fighting a lot?
- Yes. But they have opposite personalities.
- Really? - Yes.
- Do you know those people beside the dad? - Yes.
- Who are they?
- He's the owner of the moving company.
- The moving company?
- Please introduce them.
- It's the moving company that I always use.
- That you always use...
- Since I move a lot, there are the moving company, lawyer,
and realtor that I always go to...
- Moving company, lawyer and realtor...
- I managed to hire a group of people.
- They're the avengers of moving. - That's right.
- Avengers of moving.
- Please introduce yourselves.
- I'm Yoon Tae-jong, the owner of the moving company
that is in charge of all her moving.
And these are my employees.
- Employees.
We're filming today on a Sunday.
A lot of people move on Sundays. Weren't you busy today?
- I might make a little money if I work today,
but she's a VIP customer.
- You can't miss out on a VIP customer.
She's planning to move again - That's right.
So how many times have you helped her move?
- About 10 times.
I helped her move two times in a year once.
- Can you do a free moving service for every 10 moving?
- I actually told her that
on the 2nd or 3rd time she moved.
"I'll provide a free moving service if you move 10 times. - What?
Was she trying to get the coupon?
- Is that why? - Motivation...
- I told her that,
but I never thought that she would actually move 10 times.
- It's her 10th time now.
Are you going to give her a free moving service the next time?
- Yes. Of course.
- This is not something to clap about.
- I'm really curious, does the house look good when you move?
- I really like it.
- We have a photo of her house.
- Do you have photo of the house? - Photo of the house.
- I really hope that it's pretty.
- Look.
- She's good. - It's pretty.
- It looks pretty.
- She's good.
- I really want that kitchen.
- That's very stylish.
- Can you decorate my house?
- The sink is blue...
- It's vintage.
- But despite all this,
she keeps changing it. - Right.
- Imagine how much it would cost.
- She buys furniture for each time she moves. - That would cost a lot.
- Hobbies cost money...
- Hobby. Hobby.
- It's like playing dolls in the house.
- But in real life.
- A large scale.
- Changing it up.
- Like decoration games. - Right.
- You don't have to do this hobby in your own house. - Right.
- You can work in home decorating,
and work with different houses.
- I have my job involving flutes
so this is just a hobby, not my job.
- Stop calling it a hobby!
- Or...
- Hobby.
- Do you have a blog?
- I don't use computers.
- Does mom invite people
to her house often? - I don't think she will.
- A lot.
- A lot? - Yes, a lot.
- Because people need to see the house. - Right.
- She decorates the house to perfection
because she feels satisfaction from getting compliments on her house.
- It's like a presentation house, so it's really uncomfortable.
There are rules around the house.
- Rules?
- You can't drink on the sofa.
- Yes.
The cushions might get messy if you sit on the sofa,
and she tells us not to sit on the sofa.
- Why? - Then why did you even get them?
- If the water splashes when washing your face, you have to wipe it.
- It's like a presentation house. - What else?
- She'll scold us if we spill something at the table.
- She's putting the house first. - Yes.
You can't touch it.
She has potteries.
About 200 of them...
She has like 30 frames.
- This is... - What's the point?
- I think she's more addicted to decorating than moving.
That's what she wants to do.
- Does she take care of your stuff?
Since you take care of her stuff.
- She'll throw out anything she finds dirty.
I had about 30 diaries. - Diaries?
- She threw them out.
- So cruel.
- The diaries...
- She threw them away because she thought they were dirty.
- Why did you throw away her diary? - It's very precious.
- She had so many of them and it was getting really messy,
so I threw them out because I didn't know it was so precious to her.
- How can a daughter understand her mom
if she throws away her diaries because it looks messy?
What is the ultimate reason for your house decorations?
Do you want compliments from others
when they come to your house?
- I like getting compliments,
but I think it's more self-satisfaction.
- You're not even letting your family sit on the cushion...
- It's not that hard.
If they just follow the rules...
- This is not a rule set up by everyone,
they're just your orders.
- It's my house so...
- It's everyone's house. - It's everyone's house.
- That's nonsense.
You should live alone then. - It' a house for the entire family.
- Is there anything that the dad has to watch out for as well?
- I can't lie on the bed before I sleep.
- What?
- Because it gets messy? - You can't lie on your bed?
- Tell us all the rules in the house.
- You can't sleep on the sofa by using the cushion as a pillow.
- That's so comfortable though. - It needs to be in place.
- You said it's not hard rules.
It's hard not to lie down on the sofa.
Sofas are for lying down on. - Really.
- Isn't it a really difficult rule
not to be able to lie down on the bed?
- Why is that?
- There's a special room for resting.
- There's a separate resting room? Resting room?
- Yes.
So...
- The family gathers in the resting room before going to bed and then...
"It's time to go to sleep."
- "Let's go to sleep, everyone."
- And you can't even sit on the sofa.
- But she's at a sensitive age...
- She's in grade 12.
- I wanted her to do music,
but she wanted to do dance,
so we're supporting her with that.
My youngest daughter doesn't get
too stressed out.
I think that my eldest daughter has her father's personality.
- The eldest daughter?
- Actually...
- So the dad's personality is the problem.
- This is like hitting two birds with one stone.
- The youngest daughter would understand my jokes and all,
but she would just ignore them.
- She didn't react?
- Even if I asked her to react,
she would just ignore me. - Do you talk a lot with mom?
- I don't think so.
- Moms usually have high expectations for their eldest child,
and I think her expectations are putting a lot of pressure on her daughter.
Since she's not communicating well with her daughter,
her way of punishing the daughter
made her very passive and not confident.
- Was there anything she said that hurt you?
- She told me to live on my own.
To live on my own when I turn 20.
That was so... - Living alone.
- She really meant it.
It sounded like she really didn't want to live with me.
- Were you shocked then? - Yes.
I cried a lot.
- I think she just wants to hear some kind words from mom.
It only takes a few words.
I don't think it's a matter of moving,
but it's a matter of communication.
I think that's what was missing.
- Do you have anyone to talk about your concerns?
- Not really, so it was hard for me to
talk with the scriptwriter for the show.
- Because you never had a deep conversation with someone?
- Yes...
I couldn't even answer all the questions.
- Do you usually feel lonely?
- Yes.
I don't eat lunch at school because I'm on a diet.
So I would stay in the classroom and I get really only.
- That's really sad - Really.
- Yes. - Is there a way that
you relieve your stress?
- I just think on my own.
I just think on my own instead of talking about it.
- If that builds up since you were young.
- A deficiency... - So you can't make friends?
- I talk when someone approaches me first.
- But you approaching first...
- I can't really do that.
- That's possible.
- It's hard for her to carry a conversation.
She's not used to it.
What do you think about that?
- I thought she would express her emotion through her dancing.
- That's different.
- Even if she's your child,
you should treat her as an individual.
And you should try to at least persuade her the next time you move.
I'm worried that she might not be able to
serve as a member of the society.
Is it difficult to discuss moving with her?
Can you do that?
- Yes.
I don't think I can say that I'll never move again.
I'm turning 50 soon.
- That's not logical.
"I can't say that I won't move because I'm turning 50 soon."
Because life is long.
- I've been to Jeju for a month,
and I want to live in many different places.
- Why don't you have a party if you're turning 50 soon?
Why move?
- Can you promise this then?
You can decorate your house but
don't invite too much people?
Really...
- You should be decorating the house
for your family.
Right now, you're evaluating happiness
based on what others think.
That's so sad. That can't be everything in your life.
Don't be obsessed with that.
Please say something to mom.
Directly.
- It's good that you're doing something that you love,
but I hope that you would think about the family a little more.
- Right. - I want to lie on the sofa and watch TV.
- Right.
- That's a real house.
- I hope it's a house where one can truly relax.
- Please let the dad lie on the bed.
- Let's start with Min-ah. - Min-ah.
- I hope that mom will start to express
her love for her daughter more. - Right.
- I think she'll become a greater artist
if you compliment her more. - So it's a concern?
- Is it a concern? - I'd say it's a concern.
- It's not 'my' house.
It's 'our' house. - Bingo.
- It's not my house but our house.
I hope that all of you can live happily together.
Instead of doing what's happy just for you.
I think it's a concern.
- I think my hair is going to fall out. - Really.
- Just by listening to it.
- Is this a concern? - It's a concern.
- Her hair is about to fall out.
- I think it's a concern too.
My brother is 19 years old, do you want to become friends? He lives in Daegu.
- Brother? - Yes.
- That's nice.
- Please double check.
- She doesn't need a younger sister.
Please press the button if you can relate to this concern.
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Okay.
Please say something to your daughter.
My daughter.
- I'm not very good at expressing myself,
but I really do love you. - Of course.
- I'll try to ease up a bit so
I hope that you wouldn't be to hard on me
and you would help me out a little.
- Can the dad lie down on the bed?
- Yes.
- Okay.
Let's see how many votes we got.
Please show the result.
'Where is my house?'
It probably got over 100 votes.
- Of course.
- That's a really good title, 'Where is my house?'.
- 54. - 44.
- Hyeri needs to act.
You're a good actress, right?
- I'll try.
- You can play the younger sister's role. - Okay.
- Hello.
I'm a woman in my 30s, currently living in Kwangju.
I would like to call out my younger sister.
"Hey!"
"Do you own the bathroom?"
"Come out now."
- "Just wait a little." "I still need to scrub more."
- My sister scrubs her body in the bathroom every single day.
She spends hours on scrubbing each day.
Hours. The problem is,
- "Can you scrub my back?"
- "Like this?" "A little more?"
- "No, not there."
- "Where?"
- "Right here."
"You're so bad at scrubbing!"
- "Wow" - "Good job."
- She always has to finish by making someone scrub her back.
When I am outside,
- "Hey."
- "Yes."
- "Can you scrub my back?"
- "Oh my."
"Are you crazy?"
"Bye!"
I'm so stressed out. - To scrub her back?
- Please help my sister stop scrubbing.
This was her concern.
- It must be bad for the skin to scrub everyday. - It must be bad for the skin.
- Right.
Don't women usually just take a shower?
Or just light scrubbing.
- Light scrubbing.
- Let's welcome our guest
Please come out.
- Hello.
Welcome.
- Does your sister really ask you to scrub her back?
- She asks me every day.
Whenever she calls me, it's her asking me to scrub her back.
She hands me the scrubbing towel.
- I wonder how long it has been.
- About 10 years.
My sister is 29 years old now
and she would scrub for an hour when she was in high school. - Wow.
- She would sometimes scrub 2-3 times a day.
And I had to scrub her back
more than 10 times a week.
- Is her back okay? From all that scrubbing?
- I know.
- Does she ask only you?
- Usually me, because she finds me the easiest.
But she would ask mom sometimes.
It'll only finish when someone scrubs her back.
- Why don't you just not scrub her back?
Tell her that she's not supposed to do that.
- Then she wouldn't come out of the bathroom.
- Why does she do that? - For how long?
- About 2-3 hours.
- 2-3 hours in the bathroom?
- Because no one's scrubbing her back?
- She will even call me to come home
and scrub her back. - Everyday.
- She would even ask me late at night.
Because she has to scrub her back.
- It's like she's possessed by a scrubbing ghost.
- Do you live with your sister right now?
- No, I got married 2 years ago. - You don't live with her?
- Yes.
- And she asks you to scrub her back?
- I live close to her so she calls me.
- And you go to scrub her back?
Have you ever been really angry?
- Our family tried to scold her and persuade her,
but she never gives up so our family seems to have given up.
I came here because I still want to fix this.
- What a scrubber.
- Asking her sister to scrub her back...
- Why don't we meet this scrubber?
- Please come out, scrubber.
- This is like an educational program.
- You have very bright skin, maybe because you scrub a lot.
- Do I look pretty?
- What?
- Umm...
- Pardon?
- That's surprising.
- he first thing you say on TV.
Why do you scrub so much?
It's hard to understand.
- Korean tradition of scrubbing
is well known all around the world.
I don't see what's wrong with that.
I'm the one that's actually frustrated.
- Can you tell us
how you scrub then?
- I fill up the tub with water.
And I take a bath for about 20 minutes.
Once my skin is nice and soft, I scrub my arms and face... - What?
- Scrub my legs and face.
There's a reason why I want to scrub my face.
- Isn't it bad for your skin?
If you scrub your face?
- It doesn't feel bad for my skin. - It seems like you have good skin.
- After I take a bath, people tell me that I have really good skin.
I hear that more often.
So I don't think it's bad.
- We're not saying that bathing is bad.
But you've been asking your sister to scrub your back for 10 years.
That's the problem.
- I'm most at east with my family.
And only my family is at my house. - Right.
- So you scrub your front
and someone has to scrub your back?
Is that the only way to finish bathing? - Yes.
I think that's how you should complete your bathing.
- If that's not done, you don't come out of the bath? - I can't.
It feels icky. - It feels icky?
It feels like you haven't washed.
- I have to take a bath again then.
- The entire family is here today.
The whole family is here, right?
- The younger brother isn't here.
He was embarrassed.
- Let's meet the eldest sister. Hello.
- Hello.
Nice to meet you.
- Does she ask you to scrub your back too?
- I thought I'd escape from it after I got married,
but my mom had to take care of my kids
so I moved right next to mom's house.
When I go to the house,
she tells me to scrub her back - Still?
- She even asks my daughter to scrub her back.
- How old is she?
- She's 6 years old now and she's been scrubbing her back since 5.
- Hi, what's your name?
- My name is Kim Song-yeon. - Hi.
- Hello. - She speaks very well.
- Why did you scrub her back?
- She said that she would buy me stickers.
- She said that she would buy you stickers?
- Steak...
- Sticker. - Sticker, sticker.
- I thought she said steak.
-It's stickers.
Sticker has evolved into steak.
- Who do you think suffers the most in your family?
- At least my second sister and I don't live with her anymore.
I think the biggest victim is mom.
- I shouldn't say this as her mother,
but I think she's mentally-ill.
- Really?
- Yes.
- You shouldn't say this on TV...
- Yes, I shouldn't say that.
When I'm scrubbing her back,
I think she's possessed by a scrubbing ghost.
I wonder why she is like this.
- Please tell us when you were so angry at her.
- When I'm looking after my granddaughter,
she asks me to scrub her back.
And I would tell her to do it herself,
because I'm going to go home late.
So when I get home after a few hours,
she's still in the bathroom, waiting for me to get home.
She takes baths at night, at 11-12 pm. - At night?
- I'd be sleeping.
And she brings a scrubbing towel and asks me to scrub her back.
So I would scrub her back half asleep.
- In your bedroom?
- Yes, in the bedroom.
- She comes into your bedroom?
- But you need some water to scrub.
- Yes, she walks in dripping in water.
- What is that?
- I scrub her back with my eyes closed.
And she tells me to scrub harder.
But I can't because I'm old.
She's like "Mom, here."
- I think she feels itchy.
- Psychologically...
- I guess it's like scratching her back.
- My back feels itchy all of a sudden.
- It must be hard on you, mom.
- This is really a problem for the whole family if she's even asking her niece.
Does she ever thank the family?
- No. In fact, when we have to change
our niece's diaper in her room,
she goes to take a bath saying that she feels dirty.
- Does she have mysophobia? - Right.
- She doesn't clean up the bathroom.
- What? - That's not good.
- Just the bath.
- You need to clean up after yourself.
- So strange.
- Then you won't be allowed to lie on the sofa.
I think that's the worst.
- Taking a bath is your choice,
but you should clean up after yourself.
- I have to wash myself.
If I clean up the bathroom...
- You think your body will get dirty? - So I have to wash my body again.
- So who's going to clean up?
- My family cleans up for me.
- So you take it for granted.
- I think mom must be the one who does most of the cleaning.
- She also needs to change her sheets
once every week.
- Once a week? - A week?
- That's harsh. - And I have to do that.
- I would put out the laundry,
and she just does them.
So I think I got used to it.
Thinking that mom would do it.
- Do you give her some living expenses?
Or allowances?
- I didn't giver her any living expenses.
But I give her allowance.
- Wow..
- We're all family. Living in one house.
- I don't understand. I don't understand anything today.
- One person says it's a hobby and one person says they're a family.
The dad is here today.
Listening to all this. - He must be frustrated.
- He must be upset.
He is not smiling at all.
- Our family came, bringing the scent of spring from the warm south.
We give you the spring scent. Thank you.
- Dad.
Dad.
- Dad is so full of wit.
- Dad, dad.
- He did a good job.
- You practiced that a lot, right?
- Yes, we left home at dawn.
- At dawn.
- We were at the rest stop,
and I saw a yellow light.
A yellow forsythia was smiling at me.
- Is he a poet?
- When the forsythia told me that
the meaning of forsythia is 'hope',
the magnolia from a distance was budding...
- This is another concern.
- Magnolia and forsythia.
- Magnolia is also called Bukhyanghwa...
- It must be really difficult for the mom. - Wait a minute.
- Mom.
- Mom...
- The magnolia...
- Mom, you are amazing. Wow.
- Mom should be here.
Please come down. You'll win for sure.
- Dad. Please finish it up.
- To share that smile with Young-ja, Dong-yeob, Jung-woo...
I'll omit the last names.
Tae-gyun and Tae-jun.
- And Girl's Day.
- And everyone in the audience.
- Why did you not mention Girl's Day?
- I share the smile with you.
- Thank you.
- It must be hard because of your youngest daughter.
- They say that they're victims,
but I'm the biggest victim. - What?
- You?
- Why?
- Why are you the victim? - You're from the warm south.
- I scrub her back more than anyone else,
it's my job now. - Dad?
- You scrub her back?
- She covers her body except for the back and asks me to scrub her back.
And now she expects me to scrub her back
and even asks me to clean up the bathroom.
- If dad is the only one in the house, she'll ask dad.
- What if even dad is not home?
- She asks our younger brother.
- Younger brother?
- How old is he?
- He's 24 and he refuses it.
- Of course. - Of course.
- He's not even here today.
- He was too embarrassed.
- Are you not embarrassed?
Your brother is all grown up.
- I would wear pants.
And I would cover up the front.
I'll just show them my back.
- But isn't it too awkward to ask your dad to scrub your back?
- But men's hands are more powerful.
Mom would scrub really gently.
- So scrubbing your back is
greater than feeling embarrassed?
- Yes.
I'm so used to doing it.
- But dad,
sometimes you really don't want to do it, right?
- I'm a taxi driver,
and I'm sure that you're aware of the fact
that I run into some nasty customers.
- Yes, that's right.
- Right. - That's true.
- So when I go home after a long day of work,
she opens the bathroom door and smiles
so I have no other choice but to scrub her back for her.
Wouldn't I feel frustrated?
- You have a soft spot for smiles.
- So I ask her to smile.
I'm smiling right now,
but my smile isn't really a smile...
- A smile isn't a smile.
- Smiling is not really smiling.
- You should've scolded her.
- So I thought that maybe she'll take less baths if there is no bathtub.
So I gathered the family to discuss,
and she actually agreed to
get rid of the bathtub.
- The bathtub. - The bathtub.
- So we spent $2,000 to get rid of it.
- A drastic measure. - She had agreed on it.
After a few days, she took out one of the big rubber basin.
That one.
- That's what she does. - Oh no.
- You took out the bathtub for $2,000 and she brought that rubber basin?
- That looks like a plant in the back.
The house is nicely decorated.
It's very well decorated.
- I thought that I might get better if there was no bathtub,
but I was too used to bathing,
so I had to find something to bathe in.
That was the only thing I found.
- Is that for making Kimchi? - Yes, for making Kimchi.
- That's what you used for making Kimchi?
- Wow...
- No, no...
You spent $2,000.
- Wake up. Wake up!
- My sister's husband got mad when he saw that,
and he bought me another one. - He bought you a tub?
- He bought her...
- This is better.
This one's better.
- Isn't this for babies? For babies to play in.
- What is this?
Did something change after she got this new tub?
- Our family's hope that she'll change
turned into despair.
- It turned into despair.
- Hope turned into despair. - Yes.
- I think everyone is curious,
how her skin can handle
14-15 scrubs a week - That's what worries them the most.
- I think she got atopy on her legs.
I think so. - Her skin must be really dry right now.
- She got warts on her face because she scrubbed her face so often,
and she had to get a treatment once.
They told her not to scrub her face
but she keeps doing it so I'm worried.
- So we took her to the dermatologist
to see how her skin condition is.
So you got the test but not the results? - You really don't know?
- I don't know.
- We'll tell you the results.
Let's hear from a dermatologist.
We tested her skin.
- There's a machine like that?
- Wow, so interesting.
- The test result shows that
she has dry skin overall.
- Dry skin. - She also has milia on her skin,
most likely from her long habit of scrubbing.
- Milia.
A lot of milia.
- Did you hear that?
You just got the exam. How do you feel?
- People often ask me
if my skin isn't dry.
But my skin was always like this...
- They think that you got a lot of milia because of scrubbing too much.
- I don't think she realizes
how serious this is.
We got another opinion from a dermatologist.
We'll show you a clip. - Okay.
- If she keeps scrubbing her skin,
she will remove the necessary skin cells
so her skin cannot protect itself.
This can result in itchy skin as time passes,
which can lead to eczema,
dry eczema or chronic eczema.
- This is it.
I think it's a vicious cycle.
Her skin itches because it's so dry.
So she has to scrub it to relieve the itchiness. - Right.
- I never thought it was serious.
Because I was never hurt or anything.
I guess it's not very good for me after all.
I realized that.
But I don't think I can fix it.
- What?
- You can't fix it? - You can't fix it?
- Not by myself.
- The concern... - I'll try to reduce it down
from 7 to 5 times a week. - So reduce 2 times?
- Maybe you can put up pictures of eczema in front of the bathroom door.
- Like cigarettes.
- You'll be startled.
You're still young,
but after 5 or 10 years, your skin will get more dry.
I think you'll feel that.
- You'll get older faster.
- I think what's more important
is for her to admit her problem.
It's not a small issue.
It is an issue. - Okay.
- Is there something you want from your daughter?
- I hope that she would scrub her back on her own.
I hope she stops doing that.
- Just a little scrubbing.
- Dad, is there anything you want from your daughter?
- I hope that she realizes that her choices can be wrong,
and I hope that our family will
continue on our bright smiles.
- Is it a concern?
- I think she can control herself
since she came on the show today.
- If you want to clean your body, you should clean up after yourself. - Yes.
- Do your laundry.
- Do your own laundry.
- Maybe put some burden off your mom. - Right.
- I'll say it's a concern because
I hope that she'll get healthier skin.
- I think it's better to stop for yourself.
I think it's a concern.
- Please press the button if you think this is a concern.
- Out of 200.
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop. - It's over.
- How many votes did we get?
Let's see.
- ' Scrub, scrub'
- Out of 200 votes.
Is it over 100 votes?
- It's over 100 votes.
It's serious. - That's more than half.
- 104.
That's a lot of votes.
Thank you.
- I wonder if this is really true.
The title is 'Don't worry, my dear'.
Hello.
I'm a housewife in my 20s, who has been married for a year.
My husband is 188cm tall and very good-looking.
I've never seen such a coward.
- "What if this building collapses?"
"What is this elevator falls?"
- He worries a lot about unnecessary things.
"I'm going out to meet friends." - "No!"
"What if you get in an accident on the bus?"
- "I'll take the subway." - "No."
"What if the subway crashes or catches on fire?"
- "I'll walk there." - "No."
"What if a car runs into you."
- What should I do with him?
- Really. - He thinks that transportation
like cars, buses and trains are dangerous in particular.
"Honey, please stop worrying about unnecessary things."
- "What do you mean unnecessary?"
"What if you and our daughter goes away from an accident
and I'm left all alone?"
- I think I'll get sick from frustration.
Please help me stop my husband.
Why is he doing this?
- It's not this bad,
but I tend to worry a lot too.
- Do you worry in advance?
- When I ride on airplanes, I always think of it crashing.
Doesn't everyone think this? - No.
Yura is strange. - Is it just me?
- Airplane rides are so much fun.
- I filmed a drama with an airplane crash scene,
I feel like it's going to crash. - Really?
- Right.
And I feel like I'm the only one who will survive in an airplane crash.
- With a handsome man.
- That's a very positive imagination.
- I feel like I'll be fine if I go on the handrail when an elevator crashes.
- Or if you jump when the airplane crashes.
- I imagine that a lot.
- She's concerned about her husband who worries about everything in advance.
Let's welcome our...
Not our guest.
- We should welcome our guest.
- Shall we welcome our guest?
- Who were you going to welcome?
I wonder who.
- I think I'm nervous because Girl's Day is here.
I've never seen him so nervous. - He must like Girl's Day.
- Who are you a fan of?
- I'm a fan of all of them.
- Still, pick one. - Pick.
- His ears are red.
- Your eyes are the color of your clothes.
- I don't know where to look.
- What are you think about?
- Let's welcome our guest.
- Please come out.
- Hello-o-o.
Welcome-e-e.
- What is your husband so nervous about? - Let her say hello first.
What's wrong?
Calm down, Tae-jun.
- Why are you acting so strange?
- Say hello first.
Please say hello first.
- Hello.
My name is Kim Min-jung and I'm 24 years old, living in Geumchun-gu.
- Welcome.
You can ask her now.
- I'm sorry.
Tae-jun is shy because Girl's Day is here.
So he's all nervous right now. - As soon as he sat beside Hyeri...
- Hey.
- Whew.
- No, I don't think it's me.
- It isn't?
No?
- Let's hear what her husband is so worried about.
- When we go into a high building, he's worried about it collapsing.
Or what if an elevator collapses.
Or what if we get into an accident on the bus.
Or what if there the subway crashes or catches on fire.
- Do you just take cabs then?
- Not even cabs. - Why?
- It's still a car.
- Then how do you get around?
- Do you walk?
- Does he imagine all this?
- How does he live?
- I don't know.
I don't know why. - If you knew why, you wouldn't be here.
- That's right.
- Was he like this before you got married?
- No. He wasn't like this before.
- Or maybe he saw an accident.
- That's possible.
- There were a lot of accidents on the news
when I gave birth to our daughter.
So I think he started to worry a lot
since our daughter was born.
- What stresses you out the most
about your husband excessive worrying?
- The thing that stresses you out the most.
- Whenever we want to go somewhere.
He feels nervous and tells me not to go.
And he has to drive.
- He thinks it'll be safe only if he drives.
- The safest.
- The safest?
- Does he drive the buses then? - Long distance driving...
- "Driver, wait a minute."
- Telling the train driver to get off.
- He tried getting a bus driver's license.
- Really?
- The truck license? - Really?
- Does he drive when you're traveling a long distance too?
- We don't have to drive when we're going far.
- Then how do you get around?
- We would take the train.
We had to go to the countryside for my father-in-law's memorial.
And he tried to buy the train ticket on that day,
so the tickets were sold out.
- Because it was at the last minute.
- There were only standing seats available.
- So you went standing up? - Yes.
- From where did you come to Seoul? - When you had a car?
- From Naju...
- You came from Naju to Seoul standing?
- She was holding a baby.
Holding a baby.
- How did you get here today?
- Today...
- There must've been no trains.
- We drove here. The broadcasting company was going to
send us a driver for our convenience. - Right.
We do.
- I guess he feels most at east when he's driving.
- Let's meet her husband
who seems to be too worried.
Hello.
Welcome.
- Hello.
- Nice to meet you.
Your wife told us a lot of things.
- Yes.
- Is that all true?
- Yes.
I feel anxious.
- Your wife said that this started
after she gave birth.
- It' not because our daughter was born,
but I had an accident once while driving on the motorcycle.
I broke my leg and I was in the hospital for about 3 months.
- That's a long time. - That was a bad accident.
- Also, I was changing lanes while I was driving
and my car spun like this.
There was no injuries but I think it happened because the road was slippery.
- It slipped. - On icy road.
- It spun around.
- I think you're the biggest threat here.
- Really.
- I get that you were shocked,
but you need to ride something.
- I'm working as a package deliverer.
- Package delivery? - Yes.
- You work as a package deliverer?
- Wow.
- Aren't you nervous when you work? - How can you work?
- When I go into a building,
I think to myself
"What if it collapses?"
- Right.
If you keep thinking that...
- My palms get sweaty.
- How do you get around when your husband is not there?
- If he's not around, I don't...
- Do you not go out?
- She can't go out.
- Is it that you don't go out or you can't go out.
- If I ask him that I want to go out,
he'll let me go 2 times out of 10 times. - "No, don't go out."
But you might just ignore him
and go out sometimes. - Just tell him.
- Once, we weren't talking to each other because we fought,
and I told him that I'm going out.
And he insisted on giving me a ride.
To the train station. - When you fought?
- Yes.
- So awkward. So awkward.
- So I told him that I'm fine and
he said it's because of the baby not me. - The baby.
- If I tell him I'm going to our parents-in-law's place,
he says "Why are you going?"
"Tell mom to come to our place."
But how can I say that to my mother-in-law? - Right.
- So it's okay for your mom to get into an accident?
- It's better than the baby getting in an accident.
- Wow. - Yikes.
- Now...
Now... - He doesn't know how to talk nicely.
He'll be scolded. - He'll be scolded.
- Do you think he wouldn't worry as much if the baby was not around? - Yes.
- Is that her?
The one who's eating? - So cute.
- She's so cute.
- So pretty.
- So cute. Cute.
- Look at her. Isn't she like a fairy?
- She's so cute.
- Cute.
- She's so pretty.
- She likes the beverage.
The beverage.
- If you can't even go to your parents-in-law's house...
- Right.
I can't think of going anywhere,
so I actually ran away from home once recently.
- Did you?
- I wanted to go to a kids' cafe.
To meet up with other moms.
- Right, right.
- To go somewhere fun for the kids.
It took 30 minutes by subway.
That's not too far, right?
But he was like "Why are you going so far?"
"I'll look after the baby, just bug off!"
- "What?"
- "So what did you do?"
- "So I left the house." - "So you bugged off?"
- Yes.
- "Did you tell your wife to bug off?"
- No way.
- She really bugged off.
- How can you say that to your wife?
- If your wife left the house because you told her to bug off,
don't you think that she has a lot of pent-up anger towards you?
- It's okay if she leaves by herself...
I don't mean it in a bad way. - "Bug off, husband!"
- No, but...
Let me ask you something.
Do you think everyone is
so worried about their wives?
- No.
- So you think it's just you?
- Yes.
But wouldn't a lot of people feel this way too?
- They might be worried.
But they trust their wives. - Of course, we all get worried.
The problem is that
you're saying it's okay for your wife to get hurt but not the baby.
That's really upsetting.
You shouldn't talk like that.
That's very upsetting.
Why would you talk like that?
- Why don't you have someone take care of the baby and go out?
- I want to. But he won't let anyone else look after the baby.
I have my mom, mother-in-law,
and friends around me.
I have a lot of people to look after the baby,
but he won't let me. - Why not?
- I have to take care of the baby at all times.
- Why won't you let someone else look after the baby?
- This is strange.
- I just don't like it.
It's better for her mom to take care of her.
- She's doing fine with someone else holding her.
- She's beside me, so it's okay.
- Your mom raised you since you were a baby, right?
- Actually...
When I was in 2nd grade, my dad passed away.
And I had to be separate from my mom for 3 years when I lived with my grandma.
- So you don't think that you have a deep relationship with your mom?
- Even now.
- You two got married younger than most other people.
How old are you?
- I'm 24 years old.
- 24 years old. - You're the same age as Hyeri?
- Yes.
- You can be friends.
Say hi.
Hi Hyeri. - I was born early in 1995.
- Oh, born early...
- She was born early.
- Your wife is still very young.
Don't you think she needs to meet her friends too?
- Don't all moms live like that?
- Not anymore.
- Okay, okay. Go on.
- I think I'll be so mad
if my dad is like that
- It must be so hard if my dad is like that. - Really.
- He must take good care of the baby then.
If he loves the baby so much.
- What he says is so different from how he acts.
- His words don't match his action?
- He would look after the baby for like 5 minutes.
10 minutes at the longest.
- That's all?
- Does he change her diapers? - He doesn't know how.
- He doesn't know how? - He doesn't know how?
- He probably doesn't.
He can't even dress her up. - What about bathing?
- He never even bathed her. - What?
- Why is that?
- You said you love her to death.
- But she has her mom.
- So it's all mom's job?
- Unbelievable.
- Don't you want to
change your baby's diaper?
- I'm too lazy.
- The baby...
- I'm sorry but...
I want to stitch your lips together. - Really.
- Whenever he opens his mouth.
- Do you think that it's a given for your wife to do all the housework?
- Yes.
- He doesn't help at all?
- He did one thing.
Pressing a button.
- Pressing a button?
- You just have to press a button.
- Some people are not good with housework,
but I don't get why he doesn't look after the baby.
- Hold the baby.
- Okay, okay. Let's see.
- She's not looking sideways. - Hold her.
- Her outfit is so cute.
- She looks like a ballerina. - Look at her.
It's like she saw him for the first time.
- She's not looking at his eyes. - Did you see her face?
She's like "Huh?"
"Why is he acting so strange today?"
- She's so cute.
- I'll look after her so you can continue talking.
I really wanted to hold a baby.
Baby.
Aww.
- She's not shy with strangers.
- It's okay.
It's not a scary person.
- You carried her on the train
all the way to Seoul? For 4 hours?
- For 3 hours.
- For 3 hours?
- Aww, she's so precious.
- Look at her eyes.
- Their friends are here today.
Let's meet them.
- Hello.
- Does he always worry about stuff when you're together?
- We were at our friend's place to eat,
and he would call his wife every 10 minute
asking her how she was getting to a place.
And her wife answered the phone late one time,
and he got really mad at her.
- What did you want to tell him?
- To stop being so crazy.
To realize what he's doing.
- To stop being so crazy. - Don't go over the line.
- I think he should help around the house too.
Even I think that. - And stop being so crazy.
- Who is that on the side?
- I'm Oh So-young, a close friend of Min-jung.
- Can you understand her husband? - No, I can't.
It's been 2 years since I became close with her.
But I'm still not close with him.
I knew her since middle school.
She used to be very slim and she always groomed herself.
But it seems like she turned into a completely different person,
which is a little upsetting.
- Aren't you embarrassed?
- I think maybe I should do better.
- Does your husband respect you for doing all the housework?
Does he understand how hard you're working?
- He wouldn't. - He tells me "What are you doing at home?"
- "What is it that you do around the house?"
- That's the worst husband.
- What?
- When you take a shower, all the towels are neatly folded.
It's your wife who did that.
- Say it, Deok-seon.
- Too cruel. - Really.
- If you're too busy to do anything,
how did you find the time to pierce your ears?
When did you pierce your ears?
You should listen to others if your ears are pierced
- If your ears are pierced... - Right, right.
- Have you ever thought that
your wife might leave?
- I have to think about my daughter first.
- What are you going to do
when your daughter is old enough
to ride on public transit? - Yes.
- It would be nice if I could give her rides.
- This is a stress for your wife now,
but it'll soon be your daughter's stress.
It'll stress her out a lot.
- Don't you feel sorry for her
that she might not be able to ride on public transportation?
- If she's brainwashed by you from a young age,
she'll always be worried and nervous.
- But she doesn't know yet.
- Will you change by the time she grows up?
- She'll know.
- I should change.
- We talked to some experts,
and they said that trauma or depression from an accident
can lead to signs of anxiety.
This can cause negative effects
to your family and the people around you.
Don't pass on your anxiety to your family.
- I think we need to think this through.
- You said you love your daughter a lot, right? - Yes.
- You came from Naju to Seoul standing. - Yes.
- So is it safer if you hold the baby
or if your wife holds the baby?
- If I hold the baby. - But why didn't you do?
That's what love is, isn't it?
You want her to be safe,
but you don't take action.
- It's like she's in an army.
You trapped her because of your baby.
You need to free her.
What did she ever do wrong?
She's just trying to do her job.
You need to free her a little.
- She's crying all of a sudden.
- All of a sudden...
- Everyone else except for my husband knows how I feel.
- He got married at a young age,
so he's a good person in the society but he doesn't know how to be a good father.
- My parents got married
when they were very young.
I heard that my dad was really stressed out
as he became the father of a family at a very young age.
You two are both young,
so I think you can still work this out
by talking to each other.
- All she needs is a little freedom.
You need to talk and let her be free just a little,
but you're not doing that and everything is blocked.
- If you want her to be responsible, let her act for herself.
If you're going to keep nagging, then you should help her out.
- Treat her like a sergeant,
not like a private.
Is there something you want to say?
- We couldn't even go on our honeymoon. - Where do you want to go?
- We could go to Jeju Island...
- You should go and eat some abalones.
- First, let's see if this is a concern.
Let's start with Min-ah.
- You're going to try from now on, right?
So I'll say it's a concern.
- It's a concern. - It's a concern.
- I think it's a concern too.
I hope they'll work it out. It's a concern.
- Yura.
- I hope that he changes this
for his wife and daughter.
I think it's a concern.
- So-jin.
- When you love someone,
you should wish for them to be happy.
So I think it's a concern.
- I think he really needs to change his mindset.
Please press the button if you can relate to this concern.
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop.
Husband?
Please say something to your wife.
- I want his promise on one thing. - What is it? Go ahead.
- Can we go to Mokpo in April?
- Why?
Is there a reason?
- Can we go?
- This is the smallest wish ever on this show.
- Really.
- She really wants to go.
- By car?
By sister's car.
- He's asking how she'll get there.
- You can go.
- You promised.
- Yes.
Say something to your wife.
- Let's go out more often and make good memories.
- I'll help with housework and look after the baby more.
- I'll do that.
- Then...
- I'll take care of the baby
and help around the house.
I love you.
That's it.
- That's it.
- I wonder how many votes we got.
How many votes did 'Don't worry, my dear' get?
Let's see.
- A lot of people voted.
- I hope they work this out. - Really.
- I hope he gets better.
It must be hard on him as well.
- Out of 200 votes. - How many votes out of 200?
- 129. - That's a lot.
- Thank you.
- 'Where is my house' takes this week's victory.
Congratulations.
We cherish your concerns.
We'll give you a prize.
- For a healthy nation without any concerns.
- We're always on your side.
- Thank you.